The reason why we feel it is not fulfilled is because we didn't fulfill our lives for ourselves first. When we do for ourselves it is not being selfish it is taking care of your own needs and life and then in turn when the time is right, we can HELP take care of others in an harmonious way. We have control of our own lives to create it in a way that we want. We are our own worst enemy. WE allowed things and people into our lives that were not to our highest good but we can also change that. Our life plan and purpose does not have to be this big earth shattering plan, it just has to make you happy and those you chose around you. SOOO what are you going to do with the rest of your life? Are you going to live it or just exist in it? Are you going to LIVE it up or GIVE it up?